A Shy Girl’s Guide To Sex [Tips Inside] (With Videos)

A Shy Girl’s Guide To Sex [Tips Inside]

Ever wanted to discuss certain subjects with your partner or someone you’re “involved” with, but didn’t wanna seem like a hoe or one of the guys ?

Well guess what?! It’s time to get comfortable ladies. Sometimes in order to spice things up between you and your partner you have to try getting out of your comfort zone. It’s cute to be shy, but annoying when you’re just being a plain wuss. Now I know what you’re thinking “what if I come on too strong?”

Well Here Are A Few Tips:

1. RELAX ! If you’re already freaking out, then you’re going to run your mouth a million times a minute and end up saying something you’ll regret. He’ll then get annoyed or probably even get frightened and have reason to believe you are a creep.

2. Take a deep breath. Free your mind of all “what if’s” because whether you like it or not the conversation is going to go good or bad regardless. DON’T over think !

3. Be Subtle. Think of ways to ease into the conversation. Bring up small questions that you both may be interested in like your “first time“. Don’t try to have your whole conversation mapped out though because TRUST AND BELIEVE it is NOT going to go as you plan it in your head.

NOTE: Do not rush topics such as “fantasies” “oral sex” “size” or “threesomes” so quick in the process.  If you do so your guy will either think you’re moving too fast or you’re only worried about the sex. He will stop taking you serious if he ever was and will only be worried about what you have in store for him in your pants *wink*  If you want him to want you spiritually first then act like it. No guy wants a girl that rushes things, just like we don’t want a man who rushes.