Pressure to have sex (With Videos)

Pressure to have sex

If someone wants to be intimate/sexual with you and wants you to do things that you are not comfortable doing, they may try to pressure you into it. There are many ways that a person could try and pressure you; some of them include the following:

• telling you that if you really loved them, then you would do it.
• telling you that they will 'break up' with you if you won't do what they want.
• blaming you for getting them aroused, and saying that they have to continue or they will get 'blue balls'.
• still doing what you have said you don't want to do, by gradually easing into it.
• trying to get you drunk or under the influence of drugs so that you do not have the ability to say no.
  
• telling you that it is what other couples are doing and that you are not normal.
• threatening to spread rumours that you are not "good in bed" or that you are frigid, or that you did it with them anyway.
• offering a relationship to you if you will have sex with them.
• saying that they won't enjoy sex if they are 'made' to wear a condom.
• saying "you have had sex with me before, what is the problem now?"
• by undressing themselves and undressing you anyway.
• making you touch them when you don't want to.
• saying that other forms of sexual activity are not 'real sex' anyway so they don't matter.

All of these are ways to try and manipulate you and they are not correct or healthy ways to relate. 

Being aroused but not having sexual intercourse DOES NOT do any damage to the body.